Friends Who Ghost You

Introduction
I've been asked many times about the fact that people will just fade out of your life with no rhyme or reason. Sometimes you try so hard to hang onto a relationship and it just doesn't want to continue. In this post, I'm going to explain a few spiritual reasons why a close friend may not be in your life anymore.

Close Friends Who Leave
Some friends come around and become some of your best friends who go through everything with you. Through the good and the bad they are always there. You can't imagine that you will ever not have them around. Then all of a sudden something changes and they just aren't close with you anymore.

You may ask yourself these questions:
What did I do?
Why are they so distant?
We didn't have a fight, so what happened?
Are they not being open with me or are they hiding something?

Sometimes this can happen because of an event or behavior or sometimes it can just be energetic.

Energetic Reasons
We all have energy and sometimes your energy may not be good with someone else's energy. This could be one reason why this change happened. You could have changed your energy or they could have. Energy is around all of us and energy is something that needs to be looked at as it affects all of us. Energy of a person should always be considered when a friendship changes. Like friction, your energy may not work well with someone else's energy. For example, your values may change, which in fact will change your energy.

When you raise your vibration by mediating or engaging in other spiritual activities, you may find that some people fall out of your life. This could be that their energy is not a good match for yours anymore. This could be that they are not meant to continue with you on your journey. You will find that once you start on your spiritual journey, some people will just disappear from your life. If this happens, that is ok. Know that there is a reason for this. It could be to make room for other new relationships that you need to make that will help you in your life. This can affect your friendships, romantic relationships or family member relationships.

Human Mirror
I've been told by many spiritual people that I am considered a mirror. This means that in my presence, my energy can mirror back at someone something about themselves. A mirror can remind someone of the following:

1. Karma someone needs to face and may choose not to.

2. A fear someone should overcome, but is afraid to take the steps to overcome it.

3. A lesson that someone needs to learn, but doesn't want to face it.

4. Something they don't want to face about themselves, such as a personality trait.

Being a mirror can affect your friendships, partnerships, coworkers, and complete strangers. Being a mirror can have yourself asking, "What did I do to them? Why do they hate me so much?" Well, sometimes it is because of something that you did, but sometimes you did nothing at all. You are a mirror and they don't like what they see. This is a very typical empath trait and you could be one.

Life Path Reasons
Sometimes friends come into our lives for a reason. Once that reason is fulfilled, they may move on. This could have nothing to do with energy. Some people come into our lives to do the following:

1. Teach us a lesson or we teach them a lesson.

2. Help us to overcome an obstacle in our life or we help them with an obstacle.

3. Assist us with overcoming a fear.

4. Has a part to play in clearing karma.

5. Lifelong friendships that will be in our lives for the long haul.

Your Soul Family
Your soul will choose to incarnate in this life and come into contact with part of your soul family. As you will have no memory of past lives or relationships with your soul family, you won't know who they are. There are times where you will meet someone and think, "Why do I feel so comfortable with you so fast? After 5 minutes of talking to you, I feel like I have known you for years." Chances are that if you are asking yourself these questions, there is a good chance they are part of your soul family and you agreed to meet up in this life.

There is a chance that your soul family member can come into your life to accomplish a certain task, then disappear for no rhyme or reason. This is also a possibility. In my travels I have found that once a soul family member enters your life, you will keep in contact with them for the rest of your present life.

Conclusion
If you have a friend that all of a sudden ghosts you, you may want to investigate into a spiritual reason. It could be because of some physical reason or it could be something else entirely. You may also want to investigate if a person is part of your soul family. This could provide you with some clarity as well.

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